March was a hard month for Greg and I...we separated not once, but twice. Because of things that we both have done, not because one person messing up but both of us messing up. We both decided that no matter what happens, we would not allow the other person to be bashed...unfortunately that didn't happen.
I was bashed by people the he thought was important to him, and he was bashed by a few of my friends.
So, we decided that the only people that really, truly matter in our marriage are us...me & him...and our kids.
We are working on things now though and trying to find that spark that drew us to each other in the first place, that made us fall in love with each other. We have a long, hard road ahead of us, but with Christ, all things are possible. We both lost sight of what was important but we are finding ourselves again. We are even talking about renewing our vows on our 5th wedding anniversary which will be July 1st, 2011. It may be a private ceremony or it may just be a few select family and friends...probably the few folks that didn't choose sides but loved on both of us.
We are moving to Beaufort, SC in July and we are both extremely excited...a new start for us! We are trying to get a house down there and we are busy trying to plan our lives...Chloe will be starting school in the fall and she will continue cheering. Noah has decided that he likes soccer (though I was a softball player and Greg likes baseball, football, & basketball!), and Eli likes all kinds of sports right now.
We are also busy preparing for Noah's 3rd birthday in a couple of weeks....Sesame Street with lots of Cookie Monster! I am baking a Cookie Monster cake for him.
With Easter coming up, Greg and I are taking the kids to get pictures done in a little bit. We are heading to Emporia to spend Easter with my family. My sister, Amy, and I, usually hide plastic Easter eggs for our kids to find. I dont know if we'll do that this year or not, depending on the weather.
Chloe also has her last cheer competition coming up with Extreme Supreme on April 30th-May 2nd...the US FINALS! Yes, my baby girl's squad made it! After that, we will take her off of a squad and have her strictly tumbling until we move. She will be heading to an All Star competitive squad next season...either the Hilton Head Warriors or Cheer Savannah, Inc.
Well, enough with my rambling...I'll post more later.